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  • #1050077
    1984
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      is it as bas a folks make out? is there much to do there? is there much violcenc?

      I assume it varys a lot but a generl overview would be most appreciated. (obviously leaving out the risky dodgy stuff,

      #1232000
      p0ly
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        HAVEN’T YOU SEEN SHAWSHANK???

        #1231999
        DaftFader
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          @1984 408659 wrote:

          is it as bas a folks make out? is there much to do there? is there much violcenc?

          I assume it varys a lot but a generl overview would be most appreciated. (obviously leaving out the risky dodgy stuff,

          OB!

          #1232010
          Honeybear
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            I’ve never been to prison but there always seems to be a story in the newspapers obviously im not saying they’re definately accurate or true i’m not stupid but i believe there must be some truth to them. Murderers getting halloween parties, christmas dinners the works. it makes me absoloutely sick with anger! Some justice that is huh. Ruby wax is doing a show at a top security mental hospital supposedly. Its really beyond me why any prisoners of that kind get any sort of rights. Why the hell should TAX PAYERS pay to give them christmas dinner with all the trimmings or a party for halloween or for ruby wax to go make them all laugh(i doubt that but still). Its disgusting.

            #1232011
            Honeybear
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              the mental hospital place is home to that woman who killed children on her hospital ward. lets give her life some comedy she definitely deserves it. NOT

              #1231992
              General Lighting
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                Adult male prisons have less bullying than 20 years ago (for someone who isn’t there for being a nonce). But they are boring, unpleasant, dirty places to be. YOI’s (age 14-21) are bad for bullying and racism as the youths all want to prove something.

                Girls and womens prisons are harsher than those for blokes.

                A lot of people end up in NHS mental hospital instead of prison for doing too many drugs and being stubborn about not stopping them, (happened to a few other local ravers, especially girls) – others (mostly lads) end up in jail because they are mentally ill and they weren’t able to control impulsive behaviour

                The Daily Mail stories arise because the way prisons are allocated has changed. All prisons, even high security ones, are full of low level offenders, just people like you and me who tried to make easy money by dealing and didn’t have a good lawyer or were from whatever ethnic group isn’t popular at the time of sentencing. They have to be on the wing with murderers, rapists and all sorts, and they don’t always get to give out “prison justice” as not all the scum are elderly nonces, some are physically strong and capable of defending themselves.

                Also those who take matters into their own hands can see a 4 year sentence go up to 12 years, like a pill dealer round here who knifed someone who had allegedly been bullying him in jail.

                My friend who went down is black and he met someone who was in for killing three black men in the 1970s when he was in the NF. The killer said “I’m not racist any more though” and they got on surprisingly well, but I think it was still a uneasy situation as the impression he gave was the murderer didn’t see my friend as an enemy, but felt no real remorse for the 3 other black guys he killed..

                The govt did use to put worse criminals in more secure prisons with harsher régimes but as they insist on sending people down for low level drugs offences to the nearest prison where they live the prisons are all full of all sorts. so its very difficult to not give some prisoners priveliges but deny others unless there has been misbehaviour..

                #1231986
                Anonymous

                  Hi all ,
                  Never been and never will……cos they will never take me alive !!!!

                  Regards
                  Mungo

                  #1231993
                  General Lighting
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                    TBH if you aren’t a mindless violent thug, are in full time work, don’t rob other peoples property and don’t deal drugs (even if you occasionally use them) its actually really difficult to get sent to prison these days.

                    I do know a fair few people who have been in but in most cases they accept they crossed the line with regard to either theft from or violence against individuals, or just repeatedly taking the piss out of the law…

                    #1232012
                    JRGiger
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                      @Honeybear 408689 wrote:

                      I’ve never been to prison but there always seems to be a story in the newspapers obviously im not saying they’re definately accurate or true i’m not stupid but i believe there must be some truth to them. Murderers getting halloween parties, christmas dinners the works. it makes me absoloutely sick with anger! Some justice that is huh. Ruby wax is doing a show at a top security mental hospital supposedly. Its really beyond me why any prisoners of that kind get any sort of rights. Why the hell should TAX PAYERS pay to give them christmas dinner with all the trimmings or a party for halloween or for ruby wax to go make them all laugh(i doubt that but still). Its disgusting.

                      You’re one of many people who take crime far too personally and emotionally.

                      #1231987
                      Anonymous

                        JRGiger ,
                        Thats easy to say , unless you’ve been a victim of crime then maybe you would have a different view !!!!! .

                        regards
                        mungo
                        ps not saying you havent been a victim of crime just you could see how people might think like that had they been a victim

                        #1232004
                        1984
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                          @Honeybear 408689 wrote:

                          Its really beyond me why any prisoners of that kind get any sort of rights.

                          so say you got caught with a load of drugs and got locked up?

                          or what if you found someone in bed with someone you loved and lashed out stabbed them and got done for it and locked up?

                          Would you still agree with your statement then? Just because someone makes a mistake doesn’t mean they should have no human rights. We already take away nearly all their freedom, they often work for tiny amounts of money, the conditions in some prisons are meant to be revolting and over crowded. I dont think giving them a poor quality Christmas meal is exactly living the high life.

                          or do you mean that people who have committed serious crimes and are in mental health hospitals dont deserve any rights?

                          Not having a go I just find it so hard to understand the Daily Mail/non-compassionate them and us right wing mentality.

                          I fear I am in the minority though.

                          #1232005
                          1984
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                            @Honeybear 408690 wrote:

                            the mental hospital place is home to that woman who killed children on her hospital ward. lets give her life some comedy she definitely deserves it. NOT

                            why does she not deserve any kind of happiness even for a moment?

                            #1232003
                            Minghead
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                              i have unfortunately come very very close, was looking 5 years at one pointfor something very foolish, anyway back to the point, i asked around and basicly if you can get along with people and generally dont take no shit youll be allright, obviously if differs per prison you get, i know someone whos in cardiff and he finds it allright, i wouldnt wanna go to henleaze because of all the chavs and rudebois! however my mate got sent to henleaze and he found it fine, had a playstion and radio, got his head down and did his time, unfortunatly i think hes back inthere now! some people will never learn i suppose!

                              dont believe all the bullshit basicly, people in prison are still people at the end of the day!

                              i thank god were not in america, you have people doing hard time for the moast minor things because of there 3 strikes and your out rule!

                              c’mon then what have you done & how much you looking at?

                              #1232013
                              JRGiger
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                                @mungo1972 408752 wrote:

                                JRGiger ,
                                Thats easy to say , unless you’ve been a victim of crime then maybe you would have a different view !!!!! .

                                regards
                                mungo
                                ps not saying you havent been a victim of crime just you could see how people might think like that had they been a victim

                                That’s exactly the point I’m making
                                Justice has become revenge instead
                                Throw someone in a jail, they likely arent gonna have much of a life after that anyway.That criminal records gonna ruin any attempts at a career or their dream or anything. Not to mention that you’ll basically become a prime suspect anything happens in your area, dont even get me started on sex offenders rights or execution.

                                #1232006
                                1984
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                                  @Minghead 408763 wrote:

                                  dont believe all the bullshit basicly, people in prison are still people at the end of the day!

                                  i thank god were not in america, you have people doing hard time for the moast minor things because of there 3 strikes and your out rule!

                                  well said Sir.

                                  The American legal system is fucking terrible, they lock up more people than any other country in the world. Land of the free my arse.

                                  #1232014
                                  JRGiger
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                                    @1984 408766 wrote:

                                    well said Sir.

                                    The American legal system is fucking terrible, they lock up more people than any other country in the world. Land of the free my arse.

                                    [YT]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yndfqN1VKhY[/YT]

                                    #1231988
                                    Anonymous

                                      Hi JRGiger ,
                                      Yep that last bit is a very emotive subject !!! , no i see what your saying . I guess your right , those that get crimminal records could easily end up on a slippery slide down as they cant get a job and improve their lifes . Having never been there i guess its hard for me to see that side of it . And i thank my lucky stars that i have never seen that side of life ……there for the grace of god their go i and all that .

                                      Regards
                                      Mungo

                                      #1231994
                                      General Lighting
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                                        I do have a criminal record – I’ve only been arrested a few times for various drugs/squat related things, and got two cautions for drugs, although with hindsight I did things in my 20s what could easily have got me time. Even these cautions still come up on my Enhanced CRB (I work for a healthcare company) and I know that in a competitive jobs market they count against me and I’ve been lucky.

                                        I had to explain this upfront to some people in a community group I am joining (they plan to make small scale renewable energy systems to educate kids and youths) – they were OK about it but I could still understand if they didn’t want me to contribute as many have teenage children of their own and although they have liberal views have to still discourage their kids from drugs whilst they remain illegal.

                                        I saw my punishment as not being simply for my drug use, but for selfishness as well – I have no real right to disobey a law I disagree with when it has been voted for by worldwide consensus, and by taking illegal drugs I was still funding a culture which in recent times has sparked off as much violent crime and anti-social behaviour as boozing (I have seen this at first hand) even if I did not take part in it myself.

                                        #1231989
                                        Anonymous

                                          Hi General Lighting ,
                                          Guess im lucky i dont even have points on my license , i have no record . I very nearly got charged when i was in the forces for something i didnt even do , but that got dropped when the real culprit got caught . OOhh im such a good boy lol 🙂

                                          Regards
                                          Mungo

                                          #1232015
                                          JRGiger
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                                            @mungo1972 408768 wrote:

                                            Hi JRGiger ,
                                            Yep that last bit is a very emotive subject !!! , no i see what your saying . I guess your right , those that get crimminal records could easily end up on a slippery slide down as they cant get a job and improve their lifes . Having never been there i guess its hard for me to see that side of it . And i thank my lucky stars that i have never seen that side of life ……there for the grace of god their go i and all that .

                                            Regards
                                            Mungo

                                            It’s not that I find it sensitive subject, they’re just treated so much more worse than others.

                                            #1231990
                                            Anonymous

                                              does anyone know if a partner’s criminal record affect you?
                                              cos i know it affects you in some ways if they have a bad credit rating but i was wondering if it was the same.
                                              i feel sorry for those people who got stuff on their record as a teen and then went on and realised how much it has messed up. can’t get on uni courses, can’t get into alot of jobs, your application is put straight to the bottom of the list. it must suck.

                                              #1232009
                                              Matt
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                                                I got a caution when i was 17 for about £5 worth of weed off a dickhead copper. Im pretty certain that it will come back to haunt me at some point in my life. I havent even told my mum i got it. Guess i havent because it will only scare her even more, she hates the fact i go raving and do drugs anyway.

                                                As for going to prison, i fucking hope i never end up there. Although im sure ill do things which could land me inside if i have alot of a bad luck and a harsh judge. I reckon this is the case for most people tho, hardly anyone is squeeky clean.

                                                #1231995
                                                General Lighting
                                                Moderator

                                                  @harr!et 408861 wrote:

                                                  does anyone know if a partner’s criminal record affect you?
                                                  cos i know it affects you in some ways if they have a bad credit rating but i was wondering if it was the same.

                                                  not for normal occupations. It would for stuff like joining the Police, SOCA, Security Service etc and other high flying jobs requiring Developed Vetting (such as some other Government / civil service jobs). it might also be an issue for high responsibility private sector jobs, especially in banking and finance but in this cases the employers don’t have as much access to govt/Police files and would have to use private investigators. this of course requires expensive surveillance ops on the targets partner and isn’t that “ethical” but when money is at stake anything will be done to protect it.

                                                  Ironically when I once worked in Government service my drugs cautions didn’t count against me – what they wanted was honesty, contrition and a reassurance I would not let drug use affect my work. I made sure it didn’t.

                                                  #1231996
                                                  General Lighting
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                                                    @`Matt 408863 wrote:

                                                    I got a caution when i was 17 for about £5 worth of weed off a dickhead copper. Im pretty certain that it will come back to haunt me at some point in my life.

                                                    Where I work that it wouldn’t count against you much as an offence of theft or violence, though if you got the job you’d have to prove you were trustworthy and would probably have to be supervised until the management would be 100% sure you weren’t tempted to divert supplies as there are controlled drugs stored on the premises.

                                                    One word of advice to anyone is if you apply for a job with CRB, be 100% honest.

                                                    Where I work they do employ people with non-blank CRBs (otherwise I’d never have got my job :wink:) but if someone lies about it and something comes up they are sacked straight away – lying is worse than making a mistake in life earlier and being sorry for it.

                                                    #1231991
                                                    Anonymous

                                                      @General Lighting 408865 wrote:

                                                      not for normal occupations. It would for stuff like joining the Police, SOCA, Security Service etc and other high flying jobs requiring Developed Vetting (such as some other Government / civil service jobs). it might also be an issue for high responsibility private sector jobs, especially in banking and finance but in this cases the employers don’t have as much access to govt/Police files and would have to use private investigators. this of course requires expensive surveillance ops on the targets partner and isn’t that “ethical” but when money is at stake anything will be done to protect it.

                                                      it seems fair.. my dad and stepmum both work in finance and we had to have a credit check on everyone in the household before they got the place, which makes sense considering the jobs they do.
                                                      i am looking into a number of things (it’s crunch time, i apply for uni in a couple of months) and i’ve narrowed it down to industrial chemistry, medicine in the army, physics and then attempt to get in with the european space agency and psychology :crazy_diz seems like all of those would require a criminal record check, which is fine for me but i don’t want it to be affected by family/partners etc. even though that won’t come until much later.

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