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July 26, 2009 at 8:01 pm #1047756
alright team? i was hopeing i could get some advice, well not really advice but get somthing off my chest if u know what i mean, went marbella last week got back yesterday, went out wednesday to ministry of sound and got off with my best mates ex bird , but its just a sort of sketchy situation cause iv known em both time and like im mreally good friends with her aswell i saw him today after he found out (i know im a bad person) to explin and like apologise (i am sorry to him ) but like i dont regret kissing her cause i like her n it felt pretty much right but im not gonna be able to see her even as a mate without pure betraying my other mate, anyone joker been in this somewhat self enduced situation?
July 27, 2009 at 11:12 am #1204038my friend goes out with another mates ex. sure, its a bit strange for your mate, but you’re not doing anything wrong.
July 27, 2009 at 11:16 am #1204028this happened a fair bit in my circle of friends, and as Ellie says it can be a bit strange at first –
but remember they split for whatever reason and that is their past,
enjoy yourself and go with your gut instinct :love:July 27, 2009 at 11:18 am #1204036@Tank Girl 342818 wrote:
this happened a fair bit in my circle of friends, and as Ellie says it can be a bit strange at first –
but remember they split for whatever reason and that is their past,
enjoy yourself and go with your gut instinct :love:yeah that’s it .. once you have split .. as long as it’s not like 5 minits after .. you should be able to go with who ever … just don’t rub it in his face or n e thing and i’m sure he’ll be fine about it eventualy even if it is a bit strange at first
July 27, 2009 at 2:33 pm #1204041my housemate is my ex
two of my other ex’s are my best friends and also friends with my fiance
my other best friend is dating my exif we can deal with our situations then im sure you can manage this, fact is people in tight knit social groups often end up all dating each other, talk to your mate and let him know you’re serious and as long as they didnt split up too recently he should be cool with it.
July 27, 2009 at 3:06 pm #1204032@JonnyQuest 342765 wrote:
alright team? i was hopeing i could get some advice, well not really advice but get somthing off my chest if u know what i mean, went marbella last week got back yesterday, went out wednesday to ministry of sound and got off with my best mates ex bird , but its just a sort of sketchy situation cause iv known em both time and like im mreally good friends with her aswell i saw him today after he found out (i know im a bad person) to explin and like apologise (i am sorry to him ) but like i dont regret kissing her cause i like her n it felt pretty much right but im not gonna be able to see her even as a mate without pure betraying my other mate, anyone joker been in this somewhat self enduced situation?
How was your mate after he found out?
July 27, 2009 at 6:15 pm #1204031i know so so so so many people who go out with mates ex’s. all my friends have had a go on eachother. personally i think its a bad idea but i know a few people who its worked out ok for!
July 28, 2009 at 5:58 pm #1204027Anonymous
If I were in your situation I’d consider a couple of things. Firstly how serious your mate was with this chick before they broke up – if they were together a short time, say 3 months, then it’s not like he can lay claim to her. If longer, then how screwed up was he after the relationship. Finally rememeber – bro’s before ho’s – only get with this new girl if you think in your heart of hearts that it will be a long term fun filled relationship. You don’t want to lose a mate over a relationship that only lasted a matter of weeks…
July 28, 2009 at 8:50 pm #1204040@Holeydel 342939 wrote:
If I were in your situation I’d consider a couple of things. Firstly how serious your mate was with this chick before they broke up – if they were together a short time, say 3 months, then it’s not like he can lay claim to her. If longer, then how screwed up was he after the relationship. Finally rememeber – bro’s before ho’s – only get with this new girl if you think in your heart of hearts that it will be a long term fun filled relationship. You don’t want to lose a mate over a relationship that only lasted a matter of weeks…
bro’s before ho’s- you stole what i was gonna say
at the end of the day a girl’s a girl and if it’s just a casual thing, getting with her or fucking her it’s wrong, if you love her and think it will be long term than your mate will understand
but if you’re fucking over a mate when getting with a girl on a casual basis that is a cunt move
July 28, 2009 at 9:53 pm #1204033The answer to this dilemma is quite simple. Have a threesome.
July 28, 2009 at 11:07 pm #1204039@spark_plug 342861 wrote:
i know so so so so many people who go out with mates ex’s. all my friends have had a go on eachother. personally i think its a bad idea but i know a few people who its worked out ok for!
innit. all our friends are slags.
he should be understanding about the situation, it’s not like she cheated on him with you. just be sensitive and see what she thinks about the whole thing as well before you complicate things in your head further.
July 29, 2009 at 7:59 am #1204029@DJCliffy 342955 wrote:
The answer to this dilemma is quite simple. Have a threesome.
:laugh_at::laugh_at:
classic cliffy 😉July 30, 2009 at 1:37 pm #1204034@Tank Girl 342980 wrote:
:laugh_at::laugh_at:
classic cliffy 😉:groucho:
August 2, 2009 at 11:32 am #1204035@Holeydel 342939 wrote:
If I were in your situation I’d consider a couple of things. Firstly how serious your mate was with this chick before they broke up – if they were together a short time, say 3 months, then it’s not like he can lay claim to her. If longer, then how screwed up was he after the relationship. Finally rememeber – bro’s before ho’s – only get with this new girl if you think in your heart of hearts that it will be a long term fun filled relationship. You don’t want to lose a mate over a relationship that only lasted a matter of weeks…
im very close friends with both of them
August 4, 2009 at 12:29 pm #1204037@DJCliffy 342955 wrote:
The answer to this dilemma is quite simple. Have a threesome.
your wisdom never ceases to disappoint me
August 6, 2009 at 1:06 pm #1204030Hey, hey, hey guys. We’ve onyl got part of the story. We DONT know how they split up do they? For example, say tehy split up because the girl dumped this fella and he was heartbroken, or she cheated on him an dupset him very much. H emight not want to see her again as it’d be embarassing or plain painful.
All the girls in the world and you need to go for your mates ex?
Might just get a little bit too complicated / awkward. is it worth losing a mate over?
Rally need mroe background to get an indea I reckon.
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