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August 5, 2007 at 10:38 am #1042079
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does anyone else suffer with this?
it’s not because i’ve done any drugs or been on a come down as i’ve done nothing for months, however this last couple of weeks, i’ve been having awful trouble sleeping, resulting with paranoia.
how can i get rid of it?
August 5, 2007 at 10:51 am #1117436not had problems with “paranoia” since stopping being heavily involved in organising free parties 2 years ago (IMO the paranoia was justifiable when you are doing illegal stuff whilst also working for a central Government department!)
If you say you don’t do drugs any more, has anything stressful/uncertain happened in your life that would make it harder for you to sleep?
August 5, 2007 at 10:51 am #1138101not had problems with “paranoia” since stopping being heavily involved in organising free parties 2 years ago (IMO the paranoia was justifiable when you are doing illegal stuff whilst also working for a central Government department!)
If you say you don’t do drugs any more, has anything stressful/uncertain happened in your life that would make it harder for you to sleep?
August 5, 2007 at 10:56 am #1117448nope, everything is going well.
i keep thinking my boyfriend doesn’t like me, tho.
i have no actual reason to back this up, it’s just me being paranoidAugust 5, 2007 at 10:56 am #1138113nope, everything is going well.
i keep thinking my boyfriend doesn’t like me, tho.
i have no actual reason to back this up, it’s just me being paranoidAugust 5, 2007 at 10:59 am #1117437*¬* wrote:nope, everything is going well.i keep thinking my boyfriend doesn’t like me, tho.
i have no actual reason to back this up, it’s just me being paranoidif he didn’t like you he wouldn’t be your boyfriend….
us blokes are conditioned by social and peer pressures to hide our emotions..
August 5, 2007 at 10:59 am #1138102*¬* wrote:nope, everything is going well.i keep thinking my boyfriend doesn’t like me, tho.
i have no actual reason to back this up, it’s just me being paranoidif he didn’t like you he wouldn’t be your boyfriend….
us blokes are conditioned by social and peer pressures to hide our emotions..
August 5, 2007 at 11:04 am #1117450i know that, but it’s like if he’s busy and i phone him. he tells me he’s busy and will call back later. i think that he’s avoiding me.
August 5, 2007 at 11:04 am #1138114i know that, but it’s like if he’s busy and i phone him. he tells me he’s busy and will call back later. i think that he’s avoiding me.
August 5, 2007 at 11:09 am #1117438if he keeps forgetting to call you back then have a proper face to face chat with him…
but there are so many ways people are expected to be constantly in contact with one another – mobile and fixed phones, email, MSN, forums(!), social network sites, life is busier and we all seem to be expected to devote our lives to interacting with more and more people – IME loads of people are like that (not just partners), I think people suffer “communications overload”…
August 5, 2007 at 11:09 am #1138103if he keeps forgetting to call you back then have a proper face to face chat with him…
but there are so many ways people are expected to be constantly in contact with one another – mobile and fixed phones, email, MSN, forums(!), social network sites, life is busier and we all seem to be expected to devote our lives to interacting with more and more people – IME loads of people are like that (not just partners), I think people suffer “communications overload”…
August 5, 2007 at 11:12 am #1117451i understand this
August 5, 2007 at 11:12 am #1138115i understand this
August 5, 2007 at 1:15 pm #1117439hope it works out in the end..
its a vicious circle all this technology, by bringing people closer together it can also end up driving them further apart…
August 5, 2007 at 1:15 pm #1138104hope it works out in the end..
its a vicious circle all this technology, by bringing people closer together it can also end up driving them further apart…
August 5, 2007 at 2:45 pm #1117440‘paranoid’ thoughts are often linked to your self esteem
try this:
think of 3 about yourself that you are proud of
think of one person that you admire (could be a friend, someone in your family, someone well known, anyone).
think about any qualities you admire in that person (could be anything, kind, funny, fair, thoughtful, talented, good listener, good story teller, romantic etc).
do you share any of those qualities?
now think of 3 more things about yourself that you are proud of.
you know have 6 reasons for your boyfriend (and everyone else) to like and admire about yourself
do this every day and you’ll begin to find out why people like you
😉
August 5, 2007 at 2:45 pm #1138105‘paranoid’ thoughts are often linked to your self esteem
try this:
think of 3 about yourself that you are proud of
think of one person that you admire (could be a friend, someone in your family, someone well known, anyone).
think about any qualities you admire in that person (could be anything, kind, funny, fair, thoughtful, talented, good listener, good story teller, romantic etc).
do you share any of those qualities?
now think of 3 more things about yourself that you are proud of.
you know have 6 reasons for your boyfriend (and everyone else) to like and admire about yourself
do this every day and you’ll begin to find out why people like you
😉
August 5, 2007 at 2:50 pm #1117456globalloon wrote:‘paranoid’ thoughts are often linked to your self esteemtry this:
think of 3 about yourself that you are proud of
think of one person that you admire (could be a friend, someone in your family, someone well known, anyone).
think about any qualities you admire in that person (could be anything, kind, funny, fair, thoughtful, talented, good listener, good story teller, romantic etc).
do you share any of those qualities?
now think of 3 more things about yourself that you are proud of.
you know have 6 reasons for your boyfriend (and everyone else) to like and admire about yourself
do this every day and you’ll begin to find out why people like you
😉
Excellent Advice :weee: nice one Glo
August 5, 2007 at 2:50 pm #1138120globalloon wrote:‘paranoid’ thoughts are often linked to your self esteemtry this:
think of 3 about yourself that you are proud of
think of one person that you admire (could be a friend, someone in your family, someone well known, anyone).
think about any qualities you admire in that person (could be anything, kind, funny, fair, thoughtful, talented, good listener, good story teller, romantic etc).
do you share any of those qualities?
now think of 3 more things about yourself that you are proud of.
you know have 6 reasons for your boyfriend (and everyone else) to like and admire about yourself
do this every day and you’ll begin to find out why people like you
😉
Excellent Advice :weee: nice one Glo
August 5, 2007 at 6:20 pm #1117441*¬* wrote:nope, everything is going well.i keep thinking my boyfriend doesn’t like me, tho.
i have no actual reason to back this up, it’s just me being paranoidSome women are just never satisfied and some people always need something to be para about. I think that some are born like it and some make themselves like it or are made like it by others.
I get a bit anx on the odd occasion, but since Ive calmed down on the mash up Ive been feeling good.
August 5, 2007 at 6:20 pm #1138106*¬* wrote:nope, everything is going well.i keep thinking my boyfriend doesn’t like me, tho.
i have no actual reason to back this up, it’s just me being paranoidSome women are just never satisfied and some people always need something to be para about. I think that some are born like it and some make themselves like it or are made like it by others.
I get a bit anx on the odd occasion, but since Ive calmed down on the mash up Ive been feeling good.
August 5, 2007 at 7:21 pm #1117452TigerMoff wrote:Some women are just never satisfied and some people always need something to be para about. I think that some are born like it and some make themselves like it or are made like it by others.I get a bit anx on the odd occasion, but since Ive calmed down on the mash up Ive been feeling good.
i’ve not done anything for months tho :hopeless:
i have been satisfied for ages. but i am finding because i can’t sleep, my head makes up stories that i don’t like, but i’m convinced their true, even tho i know their not. if that makes sence?
August 5, 2007 at 7:21 pm #1138116TigerMoff wrote:Some women are just never satisfied and some people always need something to be para about. I think that some are born like it and some make themselves like it or are made like it by others.I get a bit anx on the odd occasion, but since Ive calmed down on the mash up Ive been feeling good.
i’ve not done anything for months tho :hopeless:
i have been satisfied for ages. but i am finding because i can’t sleep, my head makes up stories that i don’t like, but i’m convinced their true, even tho i know their not. if that makes sence?
August 5, 2007 at 7:54 pm #1117442*¬* wrote:i’ve not done anything for months tho :hopeless:i have been satisfied for ages. but i am finding because i can’t sleep, my head makes up stories that i don’t like, but i’m convinced their true, even tho i know their not. if that makes sence?
I didnt say you had done any drugs. I was talking about myself.
Making up stories in your head does sound like you have a problem there. If you cant overcome it yourself then you might need help or your relationship will end up down the toilet.
August 5, 2007 at 7:54 pm #1138107*¬* wrote:i’ve not done anything for months tho :hopeless:i have been satisfied for ages. but i am finding because i can’t sleep, my head makes up stories that i don’t like, but i’m convinced their true, even tho i know their not. if that makes sence?
I didnt say you had done any drugs. I was talking about myself.
Making up stories in your head does sound like you have a problem there. If you cant overcome it yourself then you might need help or your relationship will end up down the toilet.
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