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June 6, 2013 at 11:10 am #1055963
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I don’t have a single friend anymore.
June 6, 2013 at 11:33 am #1273892Is that good or bad?
June 6, 2013 at 11:37 am #1273895:group_hug@photographthesun 548295 wrote:
I don’t have a single friend anymore.
June 6, 2013 at 5:53 pm #1273888You can always make new ones 🙂
June 6, 2013 at 6:16 pm #1273893oh oh oh
I thought you meant you don’t have any friends, that are single.
Which is why my post seems really rude :p:love:
June 6, 2013 at 6:24 pm #1273881No I just don’t have any mates I had to get rid of them as they were too into raves and lost the ones before that due to being mentally ill and on drugs. I consider some people on here mates but I dont think its reciprocal.
No biggie I have a wife and she certainly counts as my best friend.
June 6, 2013 at 6:28 pm #1273902I feel you dude. I got one best friend who is like a brother to me and thats it, when I stopped taking drugs as heavily as I was and sorting people out I lost a lot of my so called ‘friends’. When I left school I lost a lot of so called ‘friends’.
It sucks being lonely all the time but there are always plenty of opportunities to make new friends.
June 6, 2013 at 6:56 pm #1273885it is not that uncommon for those who are married or simply a bit older to have a much smaller circle of real life friends (or supposedly none at all) but more through online social networks, and even with younger people your circle of friends changes as you might change lifestyle or attend University in a different place or move to a different area. if I still lived where I used to I would have met up at some point with Deezl and photographthesun as I could easily travel to the areas they live in but I live 150 miles East.
but especially with todays communications methods your friends can be all around the world and it can mean you meet a far wider selection of folk who become friends than you would simply indulging in taking drugs together and partying.
June 6, 2013 at 7:29 pm #1273894I spend every day at various parks with lyla which although relaxing I cant read books at all.
Every evening I’m at home, alone painting pictures and talking to people on here.We should all make efforts to meet people in our situations , it’s just easier said than done.
June 6, 2013 at 8:24 pm #1273899I know how you feel.. I lost my best friend and I’m currently drifting apart from some others because they’re stupid and don’t follow my advice. I only have a couple REAL friends and it’s so sad when you run into old ones and you feel like complete strangers. I wish I could find somebody more like me though because the friends that I do have are pretty boring and not adventurous in the least bit.
I think it’s important to just look at it like your past, and often times it’s not the people that really matter but the memories that were made.
June 7, 2013 at 12:04 pm #1273900I agree with purp, but i find it hard to understand how people don’t find it easy to make new friends..
June 7, 2013 at 1:10 pm #1273903@korno 548493 wrote:
I agree with purp, but i find it hard to understand how people don’t find it easy to make new friends..
For me at least, social anxiety. Once i’m over the initial interaction it is fine and I can have people laughing and loving me etc. but it is just getting the confidence to do that. I used to be able to do it easy and hopefully will be able to again soon.
June 10, 2013 at 4:35 pm #1273887I only have a couple. Good thing I’m married as well :sign0100:
June 10, 2013 at 5:25 pm #1273889awww :/ … i missed this thread before
what about joining a club of something you enjoy?… or find some new interest?
im a club (sport) person and find its a nice way to have more social interaction and friends… it can be a really nice no pressure way of meeting people. nothing is expected of you except participation in whatever you’re doing…
im sure this is all pretty obvious to you already, but it can be fun!
anyhow, you don’t know me yet but you can count me as a friend if you like. feel free to pm me anytime 🙂
June 10, 2013 at 6:27 pm #1273886June 10, 2013 at 6:37 pm #1273896Pretty much everyone I know is a two-faced tosser.
Would rather be a lone wolf than part of a superficial herd of sheep
June 10, 2013 at 7:37 pm #1273901That’s pretty much the reason I find the majority of people at uni so incredibly irritating.
June 11, 2013 at 10:34 am #1273882June 11, 2013 at 10:37 am #1273897@photographthesun 548889 wrote:
oh piss off.
Hope you’re feeling alright mate. I know another virtual friend isn’t what you want but PM me if you wanna chat
June 11, 2013 at 10:38 am #1273883@The Psyentist 548891 wrote:
Hope you’re feeling alright mate. I know another virtual friend isn’t what you want but PM me if you wanna chat
Hes not a lot better in real life. Then again neither am I.
June 11, 2013 at 10:58 am #1273898@photographthesun 548892 wrote:
Hes not a lot better in real life. Then again neither am I.
You seem like a sound enough guy to me. You’re just feeling down because things aren’t going your way right now. If you were such an asshole I doubt you’d have a loving wife.
June 11, 2013 at 11:13 am #1273884@The Psyentist 548896 wrote:
You seem like a sound enough guy to me. You’re just feeling down because things aren’t going your way right now. If you were such an asshole I doubt you’d have a loving wife.
Think I am losing the plot a bit today dont know whats wrong with me. If I wasn’t married I would be swinging from a rope.
June 11, 2013 at 12:31 pm #1273890http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_G31YW1ecX0
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sRtMIu4Aa_o
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SX16CfzYdiYi’m here for most of the day if you want to talk, pm, skype, fb :group_hug
June 11, 2013 at 3:33 pm #1273891I find that watching the “Vultures” from “The Jungle Book” generally makes me appreciate friends not for what they look like or behaviour but how well they respond to positivity. 🙂
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