How to know when you're being used?

This topic has 11 replies, 7 voices, and was last updated November 22, 2006 at 9:04 pm by Shit Robot.

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November 21, 2006 at 6:34 pm #1039893
Twistedteknohed
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Seeing a girl at the moment who has friends that do this lads alot i hear….basically she suggests doing things like cinema etc that i am goin to pay for lol we do get on well i think and do alot of things that dont involve money im just wondering has anyone got similar experiences and how to know when it is about the money not me.
Also what are peoples views on who should pay for meals cinema etc man or women ?
November 21, 2006 at 6:44 pm #1094516
Angel
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Think you should pay for yourself..

But if you have invited her out,you should pay..
November 21, 2006 at 6:54 pm #1094511
Raj
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I thnk the costs should be shared between the two – seems unfair to me that only one person pays
November 21, 2006 at 7:12 pm #1094514
Anonymous
i find it depends. i always offer to pay some, altho my boyf, generally tells me not to bother. but then i am guessing not everyone spends a good £30 on travel to see their men once a week, so him paying for stuff when i’ve had to travel to him, seems pretty fair.
November 21, 2006 at 7:14 pm #1094512
Raj
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yep that sems fair enough
November 21, 2006 at 7:37 pm #1094515
Anonymous
but as i already said, i do always offer to pay my bit. even tho he refuses, i then don’t feel like i’m taking teh piss
November 21, 2006 at 7:46 pm #1094517
Shit Robot
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As Angel said,If you invited him/her/it out then you should pay,otherwise 50/50 IMO
November 21, 2006 at 10:56 pm #1094507
globalloon
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it’s not exactly gold digging taking your girlfriend to the cinema
November 22, 2006 at 1:09 pm #1094513
Sound-Guy
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GoodDoG wrote:

As Angel said,If you invited him/her/it out then you should pay,otherwise 50/50 IMO

spot on
November 22, 2006 at 2:42 pm #1094508
Anonymous
asking people on a net forum if your being used is the first sign you are getting used, i recon. suggests you has pretty strong suspicions.

i’d go with what your gut is tellign you. unless you’ve been caning it hard recently in which case your getting paranoid, take a break.
November 22, 2006 at 9:03 pm #1094509
quietRIOT
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Fuk her offf.. if shes bothered she ll come a runnin….if not you are better off without …….i speak truth ….lol:love:
November 22, 2006 at 9:04 pm #1094510
quietRIOT
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globalloon wrote:

it’s not exactly gold digging taking your girlfriend to the cinema

haahahahahaaa! erm true ….you cheapskate …lol:laugh_at: :yakk: j.o.k.e….
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