and i’ve always lived in the cities and towns (a housing estate in Thatcham was the nearest I ever got to “rural” life and AFAIK have never sounded like a farmer – but welcome to partyvibe anyway 😀
TBH I wouldn’t expect “fast” traffic (i.e loads of posts) on here compared to SJ or USH – it tends also to be a refuge for those who find other boards (notably SJ and psy-forum) have been blocked out at work; but when threads pick up there’s often interesting stuff here and less muck to wade through…
also a lot of people aren’t in the UK – this is a truly international place, but if you do not speak english as your first language it must be even more intimidating trying to “break the ice” on message board..