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May 30, 2011 at 9:33 am #1240015
Sinner, You’re saying to get out the party/drug/crime scene? Even though i’ve divided them up very evenly, into groups of different friends. I even have good groups of friends, TBH whatever happens i feel indifferent. So it’s OK for me to try and have fun whilst i feel like carrying on. Before i started going out, i had huge stretches of depression. Thats when i stayed at home, now i go out i feel better, never think about it… Probably not good for me, but i feel that way inclined 🙂
May 30, 2011 at 9:40 am #1240005Haven’t had time to read the second page, but it sounds to me like you went out, had a shit time, and didn’t go home when you could, and knew you had to. Sorry mate but I haven’t got a lot of sympathy for that, if you’re on referral then you know the rules, if you didn’t even have the excuse of being fucked up on drugs then why not just go home?
May 30, 2011 at 10:08 am #1239994@JustAnotherDarren 437334 wrote:
Sinner, You’re saying to get out the party/drug/crime scene? Even though i’ve divided them up very evenly, into groups of different friends. I even have good groups of friends, TBH whatever happens i feel indifferent. So it’s OK for me to try and have fun whilst i feel like carrying on. Before i started going out, i had huge stretches of depression. Thats when i stayed at home, now i go out i feel better, never think about it… Probably not good for me, but i feel that way inclined 🙂
I didnt say stay at home I said be active and try to check out what life else will bring you before you get too narrow minded….
May 30, 2011 at 11:38 am #1240016moonie i left my keys in south clapham and it was 2am. The babe was asleep so was my step mum, i didnt wanna wake them up so i needed keys. but yeh ok thanks.
May 30, 2011 at 12:26 pm #1240006To be honest mate if your parents are so bothered about you following the rules that they’d call the coppers I’m sure that they wouldn’t mind you knocking on the door even if it wakes the kid up. Having said that I don’t know them and they could just be all-round arseholes, in which case you couldn’t have got it right either way which sucks. I do think it’s a bit strong to call the police that close to you finishing your referral, I’d be fuming at my folks for that even if I had been out.
May 30, 2011 at 2:13 pm #1240004@Moonie 437347 wrote:
To be honest mate if your parents are so bothered about you following the rules that they’d call the coppers I’m sure that they wouldn’t mind you knocking on the door even if it wakes the kid up. Having said that I don’t know them and they could just be all-round arseholes, in which case you couldn’t have got it right either way which sucks. I do think it’s a bit strong to call the police that close to you finishing your referral, I’d be fuming at my folks for that even if I had been out.
yeah we have loyalty in our family and calling the police for something so minor is not right.
May 30, 2011 at 4:41 pm #1240007As far as I’m concerned, there’s nothing that warrants your own parents calling the police, short of causing physical harm to someone else within your family. Fuck me if my family had done things like that I’d be in a very different place now.
May 30, 2011 at 5:20 pm #1240018Hi JustAnotherDarren,
It is pretty harsh as you went out with all good intentions of doing the right thing and it all went pete tong !!!!! . Life has a habbit of doing that to you !!!! and at times can be really unfair as we all know . How ever if i read right you have been a bit of a bad boy in the past and parents being parents worry , so because of past events may come down harsh on you .My advice is explain what happened and if you get punished take it on the chin and do as they say . Its up to you to prove to them that your a good lad which im sure you are mate . And once they see this they might put more trust in you and relax on the rules a bit .
And as for breaking the rules of your referral well rules is rules im afraid , all of us have to obey rules no matter how old we are its a fact of life we have to live with . I know your probably think i sound like your dad !!!! ……but its a good lesson to learn mate . Chin up JustAnotherDarren its a bitter pill to swallow but what will be will be , hope your feeling better and a bit more happy 🙂 .regards
MungoMay 30, 2011 at 5:33 pm #1240017thanks mungo 🙂
We can leave it there if you want, thanks!
My names actually sam.May 30, 2011 at 5:34 pm #1240019Hi Sam ,
Okay chapregards
MungoJune 1, 2011 at 4:33 pm #1239986Anonymous
@!sinner69! 437332 wrote:
I will do my best to keep the raving scene alive while you go on living your life and when its due time for you to come into scene I/we will be here or there……
So my honest wish is that you go on get your education, be active(politics, skating, fishing etc) and find a way out with your parents. And keep in touch here so you do not miss out the music and on whats going on…
(at least try to find a middle way so you do not get caught up in sumtin…)
This might not be the answer you wanted, it is one with the best in mind for you.sinner
i think this is really the best advice. i’m not alot older than you and maybe i’m not that wise but i know so many people who regret having fucked up their younger years. you’ll be able to party forever but now is the best chance to get your life off to a good start – get qualifications etc. you seem clever and you shouldn’t waste that. my bf is a really bright button but he screwed up school for the same reasons as you and now he really regrets it, i know that he could have got a great job doing something clever but now he’s doing the opposite. keep talking to friends and go out occasionally but i think its a good idea to get your priorities straight and think about the repercussions of what you’re doing. 🙂
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