Like I said in the other thread

http://www.partyvibe.com/forums/life/54484-how-many-true-friends.html

Lots of friends to chat with, plenty to go out having fun with…………… but when it comes to crunch time, only 2 I know I can trust with anything, would do anything for and know they would do the same for me

I have a lot of friends too. I can get on with just about anyone!

Do I have many friends?

Well, “have” defines possession, “many” is relative, and “friends” can be construed a lot of different ways.

Do I know many people who will happily sacrifice themselves for me as they know me to be a worthy person? No.

Suits me fine, I find other people only too happy to subvert others to “their” pastimes.

Do I know enough people who will help me if I really need it? Yes. Strikes me as a much better state of affairs.

@thelog 511314 wrote:

So you not my friend then pat?

I wouldn’t say that. But, in terms of shared life experience, there isn’t a lot there. Online posting… well, I just put out what I feel to be the case. If people want to bullshit, that’s their problem.

In terms of mutual life experience (“being techy”) I’d say we have things in common though.

I have quite a lot of mates I can chill with and get merry and chat bollox,

Only problem is some of them have kids now, so its a bit more difficult to just rock up these days

I do also have a good few friends who I don’t see for over a year and its like we saw each other the other week,
But these tend to be mates I’ve had for eons – same as the mates who I and they would drop everything to help one another out- as we have done on several occasions

The majority of ‘friends’ I now meet through work I am a little more cautious with as some of them are abit more straight, good people and fun to drink with but ….some ‘oh my world’ are super fantastic, met one last night (lesbian) who told me all about her 3some at the weekend 🙂 happy days she was beaming!!