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    xpillpopper
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      i just started going out with this girl ive known for a couple years.. and so the other day she comes to me with a black eye cuz some meth dealer socked her in the face.. and so logically i want to fuck this guy up, but she won’t tell me where he lives and she said she got her cousins to fuck him up and break his nose but i dont really believe her and i think shes trying to protect this guy for some reason, i dont wanna get in her business and disrespect her privacy but i think this guy should die and i dont know what i should do about this all because i dont know where my place is in the situation

      #1090228
      Angel
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        Maybe she is not trying to protect him..

        She could be protecting you,so please be carefull..

        #1090223
        General Lighting
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          angel wrote:
          Maybe she is not trying to protect him..

          She could be protecting you,so please be carefull..

          I expect this is the case.

          The best thing to do is believe her and be careful not to get yourself into anything too deep.

          Even amongst criminals there is usually a taboo on attacking women – so unfortunately most scum who hit women usually know that it will make them unpopular, and often prepare themselves to deal with any repercussions.

          you live in America – people have guns. Loads of lads your age get shot over disputes like this (even if they have their own weapons for self-defence)….

          #1090233
          AJS
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            Bollox is there any tabu about attacking women. It happens far too often for me to believe that.

            Whether her cousin fucked him up or not, once was not enough. He should be seriosly punnished.

            I agree that it might be dangerous to try yourself though.

            Better do some propper reasearch and find out what your dealing with.

            Sometimes things are better left to those twits in blue uniforms. I don’t think you should feel anyshame about getting them involved with a situation like that.

            If you do feel guilty, you can always contact him annonymosly and warn him that he’s about to get busted for beating a girl. That we he will have a chance to stash any contraband he might have so he will only be punished for the serious crime.

            #1090224
            General Lighting
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              AJS wrote:
              Bollox is there any tabu about attacking women. It happens far too often for me to believe that.

              that is unfortunately true; but I still don’t think its accepted by most people in civilised communities.

              What I am getting at is that any bastard prepared to do this usually knows that someone will try to fight him and prepares himself for further violence, so the people who do it tend to be the “wannabe hard man” types who would fight anybody and/or use weapons if need be.

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              I agree that it might be dangerous to try yourself though.

              Better do some propper reasearch and find out what your dealing with.

              Sometimes things are better left to those twits in blue uniforms. I don’t think you should feel anyshame about getting them involved with a situation like that.

              If you do feel guilty, you can always contact him annonymosly and warn him that he’s about to get busted for beating a girl. That we he will have a chance to stash any contraband he might have so he will only be punished for the serious crime.

              in this case (particularly as we are dealing with a situation in the USA where firearms may be involved) I think it may be better to use the authorities if possible (are crimestoppers active?) Just because someone breaks the law on one occasion doesn’t mean they are exempt from its protection on another occasion

              I wouldn’t even give the guy a chance to hide his stash; TBH I think he deserves to get busted for the drugs as well – laws aside (I don’t normally agree with prohibition) I think you only have the moral right to take drugs if you are going to be a decent person otherwise.

              #1090227
              Sound-Guy
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                xpillpopper wrote:
                i just started going out with this girl ive known for a couple years.. and so the other day she comes to me with a black eye cuz some meth dealer socked her in the face.. and so logically i want to fuck this guy up, but she won’t tell me where he lives and she said she got her cousins to fuck him up and break his nose but i dont really believe her and i think shes trying to protect this guy for some reason, i dont wanna get in her business and disrespect her privacy but i think this guy should die and i dont know what i should do about this all because i dont know where my place is in the situation

                Men hitting women is totally unacceptable and sumthing i’ve had to grow up with in my family! As much as you want to fuck this twat over, this guy needs help!(that doesnt mean im sticking up for him). ok so hes a girl beatin moron and no-one likes these sorts of people but going out throwing fists at thre first hurdle may not be the answer! i can understand where your coming from though, i would probably react the same as u but first things first, do your homework! Find out more about this chump, what hes like, background, criminal record ETC. Are you in America??? If so GL is rite (not that hes ever wrong:wink: ) people over there will shoot at you for looking at them and if he is a dealer than he might have many o weapons! Anyway Take photos of your girlfriends face or anywhere slse he may have bruised her and report him to the OB. He may have a record or even a referal order for this sort of thing but whatever you do, repect your girls decision!

                #1090230
                xpillpopper
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                  yeah well i looked into it and its a small white dude.. he’s randomly violent from smoking so much meth, but hitting women isn’t excusable and he’s making me look like hella foolish so ill tell u how it goes.

                  #1090225
                  Raj
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                    just report him to the authorities – they are best placed for dealing scum like that :you_crazy

                    #1090232
                    Mr-X
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                      Take him out :laugh_at:

                      #1090231
                      xpillpopper
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                        well i broke up with my gf cuz i don’t like what tweakers turn into, but i got over on that other guy anyway so it all went smoothly

                        #1090229
                        Angel
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                          Im glad you are okay..:wink:

                          Lots of girls out there you know :groucho: :groucho:

                          #1090226
                          Raj
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                            xpillpopper wrote:
                            well i broke up with my gf cuz i don’t like what tweakers turn into, but i got over on that other guy anyway so it all went smoothly

                            sorry it didnt work out and i am glad the other went smoothly

                            take care mate and better luck next time 😉

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