If you have a lot of romance in your life you’ll know who’s for you realistically.

I’ve had all kinds of ladies different colours shapes and sizes and all mentally completely fucking different especially when you’re banging them cos then they be themselves which mean you’ll deal with a lot of MADNESS now there’s a lot of forms of madness some are from past experiences bullying etc PAAAAAAAAAAATSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

MAD GIRL NUMBA ONE fucking SO insecure NEEDS to know EVERY minute that shes loved and everythings ok OR SHE GO BAT SHIT CRAZY FUCKING RING RING RING STOP RINGING THE PHONE WHEN I HANG UP ON YOU

You have depressive madness too that ones a bit of a shit cunt.. Can remember last year in the summer being twice as cocky as i feel right now (yeah.. TWICE) walking around having the time of my LIFE and I couldn’t help but say around this time cos everything was so perfect… ‘I fucking love my life, i fucking love being me it’s peng’. over and over and i think SHIT winter makes me depressed… but anyway fucking SHE just was a miserable cunt to put it simply.. I couldn’t even say i love my life without her bringing it up later and winging saying that i’m rubbing it in that i’m happy (CUNT).

Yeah nice one BITCH (Jesse – Breaking Bad)

before I draw this post to a conclusion i say if you are with a crazy bitch and not considering ending it it’s probably cos the sex is fucking amazing. FUCK A CRAZY PERSON TRUST ME IT’S EPIC!!

Then i met my gf who i wanted to fuck for ages but never saw her until the end of last year then i got on that ting BANG. WOOF. :weee: when you’re comparing one amazing girl to a load of shitty cuntish mental pricks you’ve been with before it’s easy to see you ain’t gonna find that easy….. END

As for your attack on society and stuff there’s only really one viable solution other than major hard working hippy…

and how you manage the oh so horrible things in society:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ARYKQ_hEsMw

The vocals and the track name say it all really.

depends what the intelligence is used for, because one is intelligent doest men one cant be shallow, no satisfaction guaranteed, I do not know how deep rocket-engineers are, but they are probably intelligent

@Lshak 530957 wrote:

so honestly, I am quite shallow when it comes to women, I know its bad and you can say what you like but whatever … So when I see myself settling done I don’t see It short of anything but a beautiful and intelligent woman, and now I have another thing to add to the list… I will need to meet a woman who is not into TV and who isn’t blind by media and politics, someone who isn’t blind about the world and what’s happening around us like the majority of people.

so, I know its bad, and I’m very picky when it comes to women. And now I’ve just made it harder for myself … I envy people who can really look into someone’s soul and see them for that and that alone, thinking about it, being shallow is a sense of materialism but in a person…

I don’t think this is shallow

As we have to be physically attracted to our (sexual) ‘mate’ otherwise they would just be our friend :love:

and beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so what you find attractive may not be someone else’s cup of tea,

I dont know how old you are – but I have certainly noticed my ‘taste’ (physically) has changed over the years, and although I think my current partner is a total hottie, he is certainly not my ‘usual’ type, and the first thing that attracted me to him was / is his intelligence!! (esp as I ‘met’ him on here 😉 and didnt meet him in person for some months, and then we were friends for a few years first),

and looks don’t always last, esp as we get older, I know some guys who were really sexy, and who I was sexually attracted to in my late teens and early 20’s who I wouldn’t look twice at now (late 30’s) and some guys who physically are very hot, but personality wise hideous and ugly – which certainly impacted my physical attraction to them!!! :hopeless: but people also change – what some girl is interested in in her late teens and early 20’s may be superficial shite, but this may change too as she learns more about the world and sheds the scales from her eyes – as it can be difficult to get perspective at that age – or ‘break out’ from their social circle til uni etc (as highlighted by someone earlier – dumping someone due to their fear of rejection from their friends)

And its not necessarily that hard to find the combination of an attractive woman who is intelligent and not ‘blind-sighted’ by media,

…… but you may have to look a little bit harder?

A lot of my friends are really fit, like to look after themselves, and wear nice clothes etc, who are also independent, left thinking, interested in politics and the environment, but they might not necessarily go to ‘townie’ clubs / bars, but you may find them at ‘alternative’ events – and your current search may be impacted upon by where you live..

I have been trying to increase my ‘friendship’ (female) circle, as most of my female friends have had kids and are settled down, and I have found it difficult to find like minded women where I live (suburbia) as there arnt many alternative ‘bars / groups/ meeting places’ – however I have made good friendships online and in the midlands with my partners friends, and this is helping me think about my need to move, and live nearer people who are like-minded to me, as there seems to be a much wider selection of communities there – or I’ve been just lucky in finding them :laugh_at:

@korno 531141 wrote:

i’ve always found ex boyfriends really space invading and claustrophobia-inducing.

long term monogamy doesn’t suit everyone, we are after all individuals!

the best relationships I’ve seen have been where their partner is also their ‘best friend’ but you also need to want to fuck them if it is to be a sexual partnership

but maybe its coz your ex’s have been ‘space invading claustrophobic inducing’ people?

you may find someone who pushes your buttons who you can also be an individual with, as despite being in a relationship I personally believe it healthier to retain independence, as codependency isn’t healthy / sexy either

@Tank Girl 531144 wrote:

long term monogamy doesn’t suit everyone, we are after all individuals!

Maybe this is just simply it then!

@korno 531149 wrote:

Maybe this is just simply it then!

Maybe, and there’s nothing wrong with that – your happiness is your main objective in life – so do what makes you happy!

There have been people on here with all sorts of relationships – from err.. bugger whats the word for it – Polyamory, I think the relationships talked about on here were with 3 individuals, people who are celibate through choice and people who have multiple sexual partners without any specific ‘relationship’

I think as long as you are happy with what you choose to do, and are not immoral (setting out to harm others) the way you choose to live your life is your choice, and no one can tell you you are wrong, or missing out.

One of the worst things I cant stand is ‘smug’ couples who’s belief that just coz being in a relationship makes them excessively happy people who aren’t in a relationship are somehow missing out or lonely. Which is tosh, especially when you can be lonely in a relationship too!

@Tank Girl 531153 wrote:

One of the worst things I cant stand is ‘smug’ couples who’s belief that just coz being in a relationship makes them excessively happy people who aren’t in a relationship are somehow missing out or lonely. Which is tosh.

Ah yes i know a few of those types, the smuggest of the smuggest for sure, when they are getting along! Yet when they arn’t on the same level as each other, what i (an outsider) sees, is a heck of a lot more arguing and crying and emotional turmoil in 1 week then what I as a single person have had to experience in 1 year. Then who is smug? 😉

”I think as long as you are happy with what you choose to do, and are not immoral (setting out to harm others) the way you choose to live your life is your choice, and no one can tell you you are wrong, or missing out.”
I think there’s a good bit of advice for you also Lshak…
I don’t think what you’re looking for is really shallow at all, but what are you 20? Maybe you’ll find that girl but not be so hung up on her being fit/good looking as you get older, of course you’d need to be attracted to her but your desires in attraction will surely change over time and you’ll be more likely to find an intelligent woman.

I’ve just realised I’m totally wasted:crazy:

But can still spell, I WIN!

@korno 531158 wrote:

Ah yes i know a few of those types, the smuggest of the smuggest for sure, when they are getting along! Yet when they arn’t on the same level as each other, what i (an outsider) sees, is a heck of a lot more arguing and crying and emotional turmoil in 1 week then what I as a single person have had to experience in 1 year. Then who is smug? 😉

in my old city I used to constantly hear on my radio scanner one half of a couple calling the Police to their shared house after arguments and as I could hear all the addresses and names I knew many of them claimed to be “alternative / fuck the system / anarchist ” types what would bang on about being able to sort out their differences peacefully and without needing authority to do it for them.. :hopeless: