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  • #1041037
    Irie
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      Last night my dog was really ill for no apparent reason and tonight i have had a brick through my window. I am so sick of this shit…….. i hate people sometimes

      :groucho:

      #1102863
      tarifa
      Participant

        Oh babe that’s awful! ๐Ÿ˜ฅ Sending you an your dog a big hug. :group_hug You’re havin a rough day but it won’t last, good times are round the corner.

        Even when your sad dont look too blue, you never know who is falling in love with your smile ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ˜‰

        #1102846
        Acidfairy
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          Aww hun.. i’m sorry to hear that.. i hope your dog is ok and that ur alright after dealin with the brick incident..

          Big hugz to u an urs :group_hug:group_hug

          #1102841
          Techno Viking
          Participant

            Courage!

            #1102855
            Raj
            Participant
              Irie wrote:
              Last night my dog was really ill for no apparent reason and tonight i have had a brick through my window. I am so sick of this shit…….. i hate people sometimes

              :groucho:

              :group_hug:group_hug:group_hug:group_hug

              The window can be fixed; how is the dog doing? ๐Ÿ˜‰

              #1102845
              BioTech
              Participant

                Sorry to hear it Irie. Bloody wangers!

                Hope the doggy is ok.

                #1102848
                Irie
                Participant

                  I was really worried about my dog last night she just suddenly started wimpering and was in so much pain. I called the vets but they wanted ยฃ80 upfront which i didn’t have. I stayed up all night with her, she wouldn’t eat or drink, i was in tears cause she just wanted to lie on me although i could only gently touch her. She has returned to normal today so i am really blessed. I love my dog and i am so grateful to have her as my companion and for the protection.

                  As to tonight i was again very lucky that my daughter had gone to bed and the brick landed at my feet. I had made a statement to CID earlier this week after the father of my friends son died after a fight on this street which i witnessed over the Easter w/e. I don’t normally get involved but i felt i had to say what i saw cause although i did not know the guy he is my mates son’s Dad and although i believe he is a nasty piece of work when someone dies i believe the truth should come to light. I have had problems with the gypies involved previously when i caught their kids throwing eggs at my window, the mom threaten to stab me pfftt all i can say is don’t fuck with me either cause i although i am a peaceful person i don’t take shit. I don’t know if this is related cause i have also recently had my ex b/f trying to kick my door down and threatening me too, damn bullshit in my life ๐Ÿ™ people who get aggressive through alcohol really need help to sort their shit out, people wonder why i am a party animal hmm, i may get drunk at them but i am a happy drunk mostly although i have once lost it on alcohol i only ended up hurting myself and if i was anywhere else i believe i would have been in real trouble.
                  My daughter has been amazing through all this, she really is a little star. I am abit worried but tbh i mostly sad ๐Ÿ™
                  Thank you all xxxxx

                  #1102842
                  General Lighting
                  Moderator

                    sorry to hear about this, although glad to hear the dog is better

                    hopefully you won’t need these links now but just in case I found this for our region…

                    http://www.pdsa.org.uk/managed/finder_action.html?mapid=2

                    it pisses me off how all the decent people in the world get so much shit…

                    this morning I noticed bare broken glass in the street and the neighbours car had had windows smashed (but whoever did it hadn’t wanted the car or even the radio, just seemed to want to smash something) :you_crazy

                    #1102856
                    Raj
                    Participant

                      Glad the dog is ok today:love:

                      :group_hug:group_hug:group_hug:group_hug

                      dont let the bastards grind you down:you_crazy

                      #1102854
                      quietRIOT
                      Participant

                        ooor babes …..sendin some love your way..x.x.x mwahhh:love: :group_hug

                        #1102849
                        Irie
                        Participant
                          General Lighting wrote:
                          sorry to hear about this, although glad to hear the dog is better

                          hopefully you won’t need these links now but just in case I found this for our region…

                          http://www.pdsa.org.uk/managed/finder_action.html?mapid=2

                          it pisses me off how all the decent people in the world get so much shit…

                          this morning I noticed bare broken glass in the street and the neighbours car had had windows smashed (but whoever did it hadn’t wanted the car or even the radio, just seemed to want to smash something) :you_crazy

                          Thank you for the link GL really appreciated x.

                          My window has been boarded up, and i am gonna take this as a big sign that it’s time for me to move. I am not up to fighting no more, and i really have lost my love to give these people cause i am stuck myself and gotta focus my love on my daughter and myself.

                          Thanks everyone x

                          #1102859
                          Angel
                          Moderator

                            :hopeless::hopeless:

                            I’m so sorry Irie.

                            Hope things get better for you soon:group_hug:group_hug:group_hug

                            :love::love:

                            #1102850
                            Irie
                            Participant

                              I don’t feel very couragous today ๐Ÿ˜ฅ i guess it’s lack of sleep.

                              I really want to move but when you think about it, where the flip do ya go. I tell ya what though if i do move i am gonna do my best to be a minimalist raaa .

                              #1102843
                              General Lighting
                              Moderator
                                Irie wrote:
                                I don’t feel very couragous today ๐Ÿ˜ฅ i guess it’s lack of sleep.

                                I really want to move but when you think about it, where the flip do ya go. I tell ya what though if i do move i am gonna do my best to be a minimalist raaa .

                                Although Suffolk still has a bit of crime (doubtless you know all about the red light murders) there seems to be an actual, genuine, community spirit here compared to many other places, but its not too far away from London/SE England (where I used to live) if you need to get back there for any reason…

                                There are also cheap places in North Essex but some parts (even though they look nice and are near the coast) are a shithole as thats where many smack heads end up in….

                                As you have a car might be worth even looking at semi-rural areas, but I’d start looking quickly as house prices rise virtually every day, as Ipswich/ Stowmarket /Needham Market are becoming boom areas…

                                #1102862
                                timid rabbit
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                                  Irie wrote:
                                  I don’t feel very couragous today ๐Ÿ˜ฅ i guess it’s lack of sleep.

                                  I really want to move but when you think about it, where the flip do ya go. I tell ya what though if i do move i am gonna do my best to be a minimalist raaa .

                                  i went through a spate of similar stuff, but best thing i d=one was move, and yeah i went minimalist
                                  hope everything works out, for you and you get yr dog sorted did you try the pdsa

                                  #1102857
                                  Raj
                                  Participant

                                    :group_hug:group_hug:group_hug:group_hug

                                    Good luck finding something new :bounce_fl:bounce_fl:bounce_fl

                                    Give your daughter a hug for me too :group_hug

                                    #1102860
                                    Shit Robot
                                    Participant

                                      Hey Irie

                                      soz to hear things aint too good for you,Hope things turn around for you,like someone else said tiz a shame the bad shit always seems to happen to the nice people.Have a hug:group_hug:group_hug:group_hug

                                      #1102851
                                      Irie
                                      Participant

                                        Aw thanks hey, i am grateful for all your kind thoughts, i don’t think i could hate people for long, crazy world gets on my case sometimes.

                                        Took my dog to the vet today, and she has been given a clean bill of health, must be like me i guess mention the word “doctor” and i’ll get better :laugh_at: , so all good on that front. Still not sure about this move, but gonna have to get my shit ready anyway. Stop by a good friend and she did a reading for me, i got some stuff to let go of and gonna let my self be guided and protected. Doesn’t look my window is gonna be repaired till next week but at least it is boarded up.

                                        As the good times pass so do the bad…

                                        Have a really good weekend everyone x HUGS :group_hug

                                        #1102858
                                        Raj
                                        Participant

                                          More free hugs ๐Ÿ˜‰

                                          :group_hug:group_hug:group_hug:group_hug:group_hug

                                          #1102864
                                          tarifa
                                          Participant
                                            Irie wrote:
                                            As the good times pass so do the bad…

                                            Have a really good weekend everyone x HUGS :group_hug

                                            Things never stay the same, good or bad, nothing is static. Think moving on’s a brilliant idea babe, how bout the southwest? glad u, daughter an dog ok, good luck with move an everything irie :group_hug:group_hug:group_hug xxx

                                            #1102847
                                            TigerMoff
                                            Participant

                                              Usually I would say ‘stand and fight’ but when its against gipsies I would think of my daughter and move away. Loose the ex. start afresh. Make new friends. Move far enough away that all the shit in your life wont follow you. New beginnings are sometimes the best way of sorting your life out. There’s a time to stay and a time to go, but only you will know when the time is right.

                                              Remember Butu loves you ๐Ÿ˜‰

                                              #1102861
                                              Digital-A
                                              Participant

                                                you need a cuppa tee and a hug :group_hug

                                                there you go … all better now!

                                                everything will be sound!

                                                many smiles, tommo

                                                #1102852
                                                Irie
                                                Participant
                                                  TigerMoff wrote:
                                                  Usually I would say ‘stand and fight’ but when its against gipsies I would think of my daughter and move away. Loose the ex. start afresh. Make new friends. Move far enough away that all the shit in your life wont follow you. New beginnings are sometimes the best way of sorting your life out. There’s a time to stay and a time to go, but only you will know when the time is right.

                                                  Remember Butu loves you ๐Ÿ˜‰

                                                  Thank you m8 i know i have got to move, trying to decide whether to move to a different part of this town or a completely new one is making my head spin, i have been here for 7 years. I have moved so much in my life i don’t know if i have the strength to do this sh*ite no more. I can work things out with the gypsie guy cause we can understand and have respect for each other, but his wife and her kids i haven’t got a chance really pfffttt. As to my ex he can kiss my ass, they all give up in the end, i can’t believe how naive i was, ewww, peace to him anyway.

                                                  #1102853
                                                  Irie
                                                  Participant

                                                    HUGS are appreciated thanks everyone xxxxxx

                                                    Me goes to make tea …. laters :bounce_fl

                                                    #1102844
                                                    General Lighting
                                                    Moderator

                                                      glad to hear the dog is better…

                                                      I think its definitely worth trying to move out if you can…

                                                      although I certainly didn’t move out of SE England to escape anyone (quite the opposite, I had to leave behind a load of good friends whom I miss) I was starting to tire of “inner city pressure”, and it was necessitated by “following the work/money”…

                                                      OK admittedly I ended up in a similar suburb to Reading anyway but I’m nearer the country and the coast, I think the change of surroundings and a move nearer to nature…

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