Shortylila and Acidfairy moral support thread

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November 4, 2006 at 3:12 pm #1039739
Raj
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I am sorry to hear your Gran died. :hopeless::hopeless::hopeless:

Thinking of you and those left behind at this difficult time. Please give my love and condolences to your mum and family.

:flowers: :flowers: :flowers:

Do not stand at my grave and weep

I am not there; I do not sleep.

I am a thousand winds that blow

I am the diamond glints on snow.

I am the sun on ripened grain

I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you awake in the morning’s hush

I am the swift uplifting rush

Of quiet birds in circled flight.

I am the stars that shine at night.

Do not stand at my grave and cry,

I am not there; I did not die.

[anonymous]

Remember her as she was in life at her best :flowers:
November 4, 2006 at 5:55 pm #1093580
Tank Girl
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Hey guys
Sorry to hear of your loss, thinking of you

look after yourselves

:group_hug :group_hug :group_hug :group_hug :group_hug :group_hug
November 4, 2006 at 6:06 pm #1093578
Angel
Moderator
Hi Shorty & Acid

Don’t know what to say..just i’m sorry for what have happend :love: :love: :love:

Take care of yourself..

:group_hug :group_hug :group_hug :group_hug
November 4, 2006 at 6:38 pm #1093583
doe
Participant
sorry to hear of your sad loss 🙁
November 4, 2006 at 6:57 pm #1093584
B.EA.R
Participant
hey guys.

i am so sorry to hear about your gran.

give me a phone for a blether anytime.

xx
November 4, 2006 at 7:17 pm #1093565
shortylila
Participant
Thanks for all your kind words it means so much to us.

Even though we kinda expected it to happen it was still a major shock. She was my supergran expecially at the age of almost 94!!!

Will remember all the good times I had with her.

.
November 4, 2006 at 11:41 pm #1093561
Acidfairy
Participant
Thanks for all your wishes everyone.. its a hard time.. i don’t really know how i feel at the moment..

I’m sad that she is gone but relieved that she is no longer in pain…

I cried so much at 8pm last nite when my mum called to say that she wasn’t going to make it through the nite that when i found out she had died this morning when my mum text Stuart i could hardly cry… i’ve run out of tears..

Still don’t think its sunk in totally yet to be honest..

And my mum says thanks to everyone for their kind words and thoughts..
November 6, 2006 at 12:30 am #1093566
shortylila
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just been out to celebrate my grans life at a gig… she was always so musical so best way to remember her.

Am seeing my mum tomorrow so will show her all your posts.

Thanks you so much for all you support it means so much to me.

Am still tearful and as my sis says dont think it has totally sunk in.

It will do at the funeral … it would have been her 94th birthday … quite fitting for everyone to celebrate her life!

Thank you all so much again you certainly know who your friends are at a time like this…. you lot are the best!!!:love: :love: :love: :love: :love:
November 6, 2006 at 12:53 am #1093560
BioTech
Participant
Sad news guys. It’s good that you can both see the very positive side of her life.

RIP
November 6, 2006 at 12:56 am #1093559
General Lighting
Moderator
RIP – sorry to hear of your loss but its heartening to see your whole family trying to remain positive and remember the best parts of her life..
November 6, 2006 at 1:47 pm #1093581
Shit Robot
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Sorry to hear about this guys,hope you are coping as best you can:group_hug:group_hug:flowers::flowers:
November 6, 2006 at 2:35 pm #1093577
TK-421
Participant
I know how you feel guys,:cry:, you have my hugz…

TK
November 6, 2006 at 8:58 pm #1093562
Acidfairy
Participant
TK-421 wrote:

I know how you feel guys,:cry:, you have my hugz…

TK

Thanks babes.. hope ur holding up ok.. had a wee chat wi Raj don’t let u know u get u down.. ur the bigger person.. inappropriate is an understatement..

hugz
xxxxxxxxx
November 7, 2006 at 11:22 am #1093582
phantom
Participant
Sorry to hear that… I know exactly what you feel. I just lost mine a few months back…

***hugggss***
November 7, 2006 at 7:09 pm #1093572
Illmatched
Participant
I’ll be thinking of you and your Family next Monday, Seonaid and Isla.

You’ll find her in your heart, always.

You can’t kill love. You can’t even kill it with hate. You can kill in-love, and loving, and even loveliness. You can kill them all, or numb them into dense, leaden regret, but you can’t kill love itself. Love is the passionate search for a truth other than your own; and once you feel it, honestly and completely, love is forever. Every act of love, every moment of the heart reaching out, is a part of the universal good: it’s a part of God, or what we call God, and it can never die.

Neal xx
November 7, 2006 at 8:51 pm #1093563
Acidfairy
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Quote:

I’ll be thinking of you and your Family next Monday, Seonaid and Isla.

You’ll find her in your heart, always.

You can’t kill love. You can’t even kill it with hate. You can kill in-love, and loving, and even loveliness. You can kill them all, or numb them into dense, leaden regret, but you can’t kill love itself. Love is the passionate search for a truth other than your own; and once you feel it, honestly and completely, love is forever. Every act of love, every moment of the heart reaching out, is a part of the universal good: it’s a part of God, or what we call God, and it can never die.

Neal xx

Thanks hun.. 😉 xx
November 11, 2006 at 11:40 pm #1093567
shortylila
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I would like to say thank you everyone for all your kind thoughts and wishes ….

The funeral is on monday and am dreading it would have been her 94th birthday… but should be an ending to it all finally.. I can only hope anyway… all i can say is at least my man is going to be there someone to support me.

Thank you all though it means so much to my family …. you are all one in a million.

:love: :love: :love: :love: :love: :love:
November 13, 2006 at 1:58 pm #1093575
Raj
Participant
Thinking of you today :love:

Hope the funeral goes well:group_hug
November 13, 2006 at 5:54 pm #1093568
shortylila
Participant
Hi everyone

many thanks for all your kind words … the funeral was lovely well fitting for my grannie. Although I used quite a few tissues I did smile and laugh at a few things my aunt said at the Eulogy. When my aunt was saying funny things about my graqnnie the sun came out … was as if she was listening laughing away!!

Quite a few people came back to the hotel after aswell… which was lovely.

It was an emotional day but all the family pulled together … which was the main thing.

The whole family would like to thank you all for all the kind words means so much xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
November 13, 2006 at 6:14 pm #1093574
sistersemtex
Participant
Sorry for your loss. If I can help in any way don’t hesitate to call. xxx
November 13, 2006 at 6:33 pm #1093564
Acidfairy
Participant
Thanks hun…

It was a difficult day for us all.. but the service was lovely and my auntie sheila did her proud with her eulogy and Shorty’s rite the sun did seem to beam in during it.. :love: Grannie had said she didn’t want anyone to say anything at her funeral because she didn’t think she’d done anything worth mentioning.. how wrong she was..

There was a nice turnout of family and friends which showed how much loved she was..
I’m just glad its over now though..

And as Shorty said thank you again to you all for your kind words and messages.. they mean a lot to us all.. 😉
November 13, 2006 at 8:47 pm #1093569
shortylila
Participant
All in all was a nice tribute to a very fulfilled life!!!
November 13, 2006 at 11:31 pm #1093570
shortylila
Participant
Just so people know this was my grannie.. .the sweetest , most loving woman with a wicked sense of humour you could ever meet!!!

She was 90 in the pic!!
November 13, 2006 at 11:33 pm #1093571
shortylila
Participant
This is my favorite pic of her ever!! Crying as I see it!!
November 13, 2006 at 11:38 pm #1093576
Raj
Participant
serious mischief in those eyes :weee:

what was the wickedest joke she ever played on you all? :groucho:
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