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September 14, 2006 at 1:06 am #1039232
my friends, for the past week me and my dad have been having alot of problems with our emotions. stress, depression, etc. becuase, well….exactly tomorrow makes it 1 week, my mom has been the hospital. she suffered a massive stroke that caused well….alot of brain damage. she is in a coma becuase of it. i just cannot understand WHY god would do this to my mom. in my opinion, the greatest mother in the world. loving, warm hearted, chariable, caring, and most importantly compassionate. unfrtunatly the doctors ‘have done all they could do’ for my mother. *sighs* and in about 1 week to 10 days from now about. if she is still unresponsive and the like….then me nad my dad will have to decide weather or not we will take my mom off of life support. i really need all of your prayers and support. from my family to yours i ask this. my friends……my brothers and my sisters here on partyvibe…..im scared…i dont wanna loose my mom! :hopeless:
September 14, 2006 at 1:15 am #1089639My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.:group_hug :group_hug :group_hug
All my love.S:love: :love:September 14, 2006 at 1:22 am #1089628:crazy_diz thank you my friend….its just so hard now a days….were waiting and waiting for the lord to call my mother home….and i know in my heart she’ll be in paradice soon man…..my dad, whenever there is another surgery or operation that needs to be performed, he always asks to me ‘Stephen, how much can mom take-?’ and he always cries….and i do to.
September 14, 2006 at 1:39 am #1089641you are not alone friend :love: :love: :group_hug :group_hug
September 14, 2006 at 1:41 am #1089640Crying is a wonderful out-pouring of emotion man and to be with your dad during this difficult time will be of so much help to the both of you. My prayers and thoughts are with you Stephen.
All my love from another Stephen:love: :love:September 14, 2006 at 1:49 am #1089629Agent Subby wrote:Crying is a wonderful out-pouring of emotion man and to be with your dad during this difficult time will be of so much help to the both of you. My prayers and thoughts are with you Stephen.
All my love from another Stephen:love: :love:yes i know….it will be so hard for me and my dad to make ends meet with the bills sstarting to pour in. it seems like all i wanted to do in my life is now shaterred. no euro trip with my 2 best friends vladimir and kevin, no home stay in amsterdam, no edu in moscow…..all that made me, ME is gone. i guess iam a hollowed shell, oh sure, you can call it denial. a part of me wants my mom alive, but i have to accept what jesus wants. and if he wants to say to my mom ‘patricia, iam calling you home now’ i know she’ll be happy. but all who know my mom wont be….*sighs*
September 14, 2006 at 5:04 am #1089633:flowers: :flowers: :flowers: I’m so sorry Nuami:cry:
September 14, 2006 at 7:34 am #1089632Thats horrible man, my thoughts are with you
September 14, 2006 at 8:35 am #1089638:group_hug:group_hug:group_hug:group_hug:group_hugFor you All
September 14, 2006 at 8:50 am #1089624sorry to hear this… my dad suffered some serious chronic illness and passed away a few years ago so I know what you must be going through…. it is hard (especially having to sacrifice all the good things in life) but you will come through it a lot stronger..
September 14, 2006 at 9:19 am #1089625I’m very sorry to hear that NuamiTu. It’s difficult to know what to say but I can imagine what it must be like.
Hope you and your Dad find the strength to get through. My thoughts will be with you.
September 14, 2006 at 9:33 am #1089631NuamiTu18
i am so sorry to hear that your mother is so desperately ill:hopeless:
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its a horrible experience to watch people you love die and you feel empty inside along with angry [what did they do to deserve this?] and many are also racked with guilt [what if …would they still be here]
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i hope that you and your father talk through everything and dont bottle it up – something just happen and nothing we can do will change them :hopeless: regardless of what we want
we are here if you want us
all the best and love
rajSeptember 14, 2006 at 9:42 am #1089627hi, i know i dont know you …but i really feel for you…hope your ok…love from me xxx
September 14, 2006 at 10:00 am #1089634My thoughts are with you during this incrediably difficult time for you and your family, :group_hug:group_hug
dont be afraid to express your emotoins as they come, as there will be a whole range of them and botteling them up and ‘trying to be strong’ for others / your family wont help you. :group_hug:group_hug
take care of you and we are here if / when ever you need to talk
September 14, 2006 at 4:58 pm #1089637stay strong mate we are here if you need us
September 14, 2006 at 7:17 pm #1089636:group_hug :group_hug
September 15, 2006 at 12:27 am #1089630the rev wrote:stay strong mate we are here if you need usyes-yes i know. i can always count on you guys here on partyvibe to be here.
September 17, 2006 at 5:39 pm #1089626
September 19, 2006 at 3:49 pm #1089642I don’t know what to say.
I cincerely wish you and your familly well.
Next time I see a shooting star I’ll make a wish for you.
Sadly, I came to the conclusion some time ago that God doesn’t really know what he’s doing. The further I get through life the more cinvinced I am.
September 19, 2006 at 4:12 pm #1089635erm…shit..
sending you strength in this difficult time
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