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    Sandman
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      what this all about to you ? :bigsmile:

      #1073727
      Jon_tooth
      Participant
        Sandman wrote:
        what this all about to you ? :bigsmile:

        It’s a load of bollocks innit blud.

        #1073694
        General Lighting
        Moderator

          a slogan which was a cheesy in 1994/5 when it was first being bandied about when the paths of rave and the internet crossed (at least for the wider public)

          a bit of spin which contains some good ideas but has limits..

          OK raves aren’t supposed to be a place for fighting and stabbing people, domestics and they are usually friendly and fun at least until the drugs wear off or run out..

          But no fucking way am I going to feel love or respect towards people like control freak politicians and ministers, facist/racist groups, extreme religious nuts etc, yokels who whinge and moan and grass up parties even when they are just walking their dog (i.e they don’t even live there) etc…

          #1073722
          Sandman
          Participant

            shouldn’t we all just learn to get along tho, and yeah the whole market bollocks of plur is rubbish imo but,

            people can’t help where they are from and what they do ?

            everyone has the right to be who they are, no ?

            #1073736
            Dutti B
            Participant

              its every thing to me

              This is what makes my life happy and this is what I strive for in my life and the good people around me who want it too.

              as for the whole world I very much doubt this can be. But it least I can try and make it happen for myself and my family and friends.

              alot of peeps are not in to it but thats ok for them. I am a hippie and proud

              I lead my self I am not a follower.

              #1073704
              vicky
              Participant

                PLUR for me embodies most closely what the scene should be about – not so much as an external philosophy even, just as a means of promoting a positive attitude within the scene if nothing else – an attitude among ravers even if this doesn’t extend to the rest of society.

                If there’s one utopian ideal that rave culture should cling on to, fluffy and unrealistic as it might be, this is it.

                not an unhealthy set of ideals to aspire to…..

                #1073723
                Sandman
                Participant
                  Dutti B wrote:
                  its every thing to me

                  This is what makes my life happy and this is what I strive for in my life and the good people around me who want it too.

                  as for the whole world I very much doubt this can be. But it least I can try and make it happen for myself and my family and friends.

                  alot of peeps are not in to it but thats ok for them. I am a hippie and proud

                  I lead my self I am not a follower.

                  sweet, well i believe in karma and follow buddhism,

                  but i understand this isn’t for everyone :alien_abd

                  #1073695
                  General Lighting
                  Moderator
                    Sandman wrote:
                    sweet, well i believe in karma and follow buddhism,

                    but i understand this isn’t for everyone :alien_abd

                    well my mum believes in karma and she isn’t a hippy but she is of Indian ancestry…

                    and I don’t believe in doing evil although I do believe in a right to self-defence..

                    but TBH I think for most people these days PLUR is about the same as glowsticks. Pretty to look at for a bit, but a glow produced by artificial chemicals which has a finite life in a product discarded after a few hours and stomped into the mud.

                    it more often seems to be a case of co-dependency; a bunch of people who barely trust each other and wouldn’t normally socialise brought together because they need enough force of numbers to invade someone elses resources and to keep the cops at bay for a few hours.

                    #1073724
                    Sandman
                    Participant
                      General Lighting wrote:
                      it more often seems to be a case of co-dependency; a bunch of people who barely trust each other and wouldn’t normally socialise brought together because they need enough force of numbers to invade someone elses resources and to keep the cops at bay for a few hours.

                      i don’t agree, that’s not the reason :rant:

                      #1073737
                      Dutti B
                      Participant
                        Sandman wrote:
                        sweet, well i believe in karma and follow buddhism,

                        but i understand this isn’t for everyone :alien_abd

                        great!!

                        I have experienced Buddism, Nurchiren Buddism. Karma is what I live my life on. You do bad things bad things happen to you and vise versa.

                        I try and experience as many different beliefs and followings as I can so I can have a greater knowlege of different societies and broaden my knowlege and my mind.

                        To me knowlege is power, so getting older doesn’t threat me. everything changes.

                        I also feel I am close with the Pagen side of life.

                        #1073728
                        Jon_tooth
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                          Sandman wrote:
                          i don’t agree, that’s not the reason :rant:

                          And that’s why it is bollocks.

                          People don’t all agree, we aren’t all as one.

                          It’s a concept that doesn’t exist.

                          If you want to stick your head in the fluffy clouds that’s up to you, but I, sir, am a realist.

                          #1073696
                          General Lighting
                          Moderator
                            Sandman wrote:
                            i don’t agree, that’s not the reason :rant:

                            it wasn’t initially but in some places at least seems to be the way…

                            when the authorities weren’t as heavy after an intiial spell of idealism rig politics split and dispersed loads of crews so you had about 5 parties within a few miles of each other every weekend… I saw this happen loads a few years ago…

                            its only because this caused a backlash and authorities have clamped down recently people have come together again to link up..

                            remember that 15 page thread on SJ that even the admins there had to delete about when a recent bank holiday party went pear-shaped? they had to delete that as people were virtually grassing each other up out of anger and desire to score points in the arguments!

                            thats how fragile the links can be and although one particular area of the UK was mentioned here I’ve seen similar situations in other areas..

                            #1073718
                            Anonymous

                              i dont see how peace love, unity and respect can be bollocks, i mean they are beautiful concepts. yea its not a recent slogan and yea, not every person or every party (or even most of them) are built on these premises, let alone them being embued in the actual events themselves. but i think they are good concepts to have in mind when organising and attending an event.

                              surely noone wants a fight, so we should be able to agree that peace is a good goal. and those that do want a fight should be able to appreciate that virtually everyone else at the rave doesnt want to see it or be involved, and they should respect that.

                              this is primarily acheived by people feeling like they are welcome at an event, and have some unity with the situation and people involved. this unity also protects us, for example when the police show up, its often the solidarity of the ravers for the rig that keeps the rig safe.

                              it is also vital that people have some kind of respect or tolerence of one another, because without that people are not likely to feel unified with the event, and therefore peaceful. i think that rigs should also have respect for teh land they are tresspassing on or just using. a tidy site after a rave goes a long way in the minds of the locals who will inspect it after. this helps bring grassroots support and understanding, vital ingredients for the future of raves.

                              and finally love. its an overused, soppy word, but i think we can all agree that we love music. and the love of music (and freinds, and drugs and massive fuck off soundystems) is what brings us together for these weird events where a load of stangers all meet up and convulse in time to music in front of a wall of sound.

                              its not some perfect mantra, but they are good concepts to remind us of how things could be and how we want them to be. i done know about anyone else, but when i get mashed i get confused, and sometimes simple beautiful concepts help me deal with difficult situations.

                              what slogan would mr tooth et al suggest as a banner for the rave scene?

                              #1073725
                              Sandman
                              Participant

                                see if everyone stopped wanting to be top dog, we’d be cool,

                                i was once a realist, but now i’m a mentalist, yes that means i use the force :alien_abd

                                greed will always misguide unity and respect,

                                greed is an addiction, learn to be it’s master, and stop being consumer whores :bigsmile:

                                #1073705
                                vicky
                                Participant
                                  General Lighting wrote:
                                  thats how fragile the links can be and although one particular area of the UK was mentioned here I’ve seen similar situations in other areas..

                                  But isn’t this part of the problem with a factionalised and antagonistic UK scene? Is PLUR dead everywhere or just certain localised areas?

                                  Jon – more to the point, isn’t the most fundamental part of PLUR that not ALL people do agree, but that tolerance and respect for alternative viewpoints (not just calling someone a twat because they don’t agree with you) is what is needed?

                                  I think that is realistic

                                  and I don’t think unity has to mean conformity – a series of clones that all think the same – no disagreement, no dissent.
                                  Unity is about sticking together despite difference.

                                  If recent posts on SJ prove that wrong then so be it. But the actions of a few do not neceassirly represent the many – and rave culture is bigger than the UK!

                                  #1073706
                                  vicky
                                  Participant
                                    USE wrote:
                                    i done know about anyone else, but when i get mashed i get confused, and sometimes simple beautiful concepts help me deal with difficult situations.

                                    word up – I get confused too!!

                                    #1073697
                                    General Lighting
                                    Moderator
                                      vicky wrote:
                                      But isn’t this part of the problem with a factionalised and antagonistic UK scene? Is PLUR dead everywhere or just certain localised areas?

                                      I don’t think it was ever alive in this country to start with.

                                      Thats not to say that raves aren’t a bit more fun than a townie night out but it was always a bit of a “bunch of lads doing mischief” type thing – low-cost fun borrowing someone elses resources and a lot of people are prepared to accept that – when things get heavy (cops, thugs etc) they might have a bit of a fight but just accept it as “the way things are”.

                                      I get the impression theres a casual acceptance of violence and misogyny now; if a fight happens or a girl gets groped its just seen as normal. Fights and bullying are often seen as a “bit of a laugh” (at least for those who aren’t involved) or an excuse/reason to have another fight – as well as people bringing their grudges and domestic arguments to the parties. Girls also are often seen as rig accessories/trophies rather than actual valued crew members (with a few notable exceptions)….

                                      the raves which go off (relatively) trouble free often have people mocking the farmer, locals, dog walkers etc. OK fair enough self defence if they try anything stupid, but it seems a bit wrong IMO to bully someone on their own land…

                                      Basically Britains lad/binge culture has driven out anything else and raves are simply becoming an low-cost extension of the townie lifestyle rather than a replacement for it…

                                      #1073707
                                      vicky
                                      Participant
                                        General Lighting wrote:
                                        I don’t think it was ever alive in this country to start with.

                                        I would have to disagree with that.
                                        I think you’re right about binge/ lad culture today, but then weren’t people saying that back in the early nineties? (except then we called them ‘chopheads’ on account of their hairstyles and mentality – Welsh lingo clart:)
                                        one thing i do know – and I would have to attribute this to some underlying ethos in the scene (PLUR perhaps) – is that i’ve been in a mashed up state around lads, hippies, crusties, anarchos, even chavs and I;ve seen some sort of general good will and helpfulness from most people (whether its some much needed water, help to find my friends, help finding my car keys (not again!), or a warm fire to take the chill off)

                                        I can’t comment on particular areas/ localities – I can only relate some of the things that Ive experienced (I’ve never been to a party in London or the south east for example). But I know PLUR exists for some people who are as involved today as they were in the early nineties and its what keeps them going…

                                        #1073698
                                        General Lighting
                                        Moderator
                                          vicky wrote:
                                          I would have to disagree with that.
                                          I think you’re right about binge/ lad culture today, but then weren’t people saying that back in the early nineties? (except then we called them ‘chopheads’ on account of their hairstyles and mentality – Welsh lingo clart:)

                                          yeah, me and my mates were the original chavs. We knocked about together just before the rave scene started.

                                          There was perhaps initially something different rave culture, people were a bit friendlier etc but it wasn’t long (only a few months TBH) before the problems started, people falling out with one another, blagging money and being deadbeats, the usual stuff.

                                          That said there were less fights and real violence at least between friends.

                                          I wouldn’t have called that initial idealism PLUR though, just good drugs, a bunch of lads having a laugh in times when there was less stress and pressure in the world and the reality that our families and friends were supportive and there to take a lot of the burden and to back us up when we fucked up (this we of course didn’t realise at the time).

                                          Quote:
                                          one thing i do know – and I would have to attribute this to some underlying ethos in the scene (PLUR perhaps) – is that i’ve been in a mashed up state around lads, hippies, crusties, anarchos, even chavs and I;ve seen some sort of general good will and helpfulness from most people (whether its some much needed water, help to find my friends, help finding my car keys (not again!), or a warm fire to take the chill off)

                                          gender has a lot to do with this. Everyone wants to be nice to a young lady 😉 Blokes are often just seen as competition. Even by the most “right-on” people…

                                          Mind you I suppose when I said “this country” I may have just meant England… I have only been to Wales a handfil of times so can’t comment really on how things are.

                                          #1073729
                                          Jon_tooth
                                          Participant
                                            vicky wrote:
                                            Jon – more to the point, isn’t the most fundamental part of PLUR that not ALL people do agree, but that tolerance and respect for alternative viewpoints (not just calling someone a twat because they don’t agree with you) is what is needed?

                                            Yeah, but I don’t agree with it.

                                            I like fighting at raves. I probably have at least one fight during a party, and if I don’t it’s not through a lack of trying, but sometimes people won’t fight.

                                            PLUR is just a load of hippy nonsense.

                                            The only respect people have is borne out of fear, the only love is the love of drugs, the only unity is that everyone’s on ketamine, and peace only comes after it has been won. In a fight.

                                            PLUR

                                            #1073738
                                            Dutti B
                                            Participant

                                              oh dear

                                              No offence, but I am glad I don’t think like that

                                              every one to there own.

                                              Trails in life will change you opinions and morals mate.

                                              Thats for sure

                                              #1073699
                                              General Lighting
                                              Moderator

                                                I don’t think Jon is being entirely serious TBH

                                                – but many a true word is said in jest, from a chap who comes from a country where men get so angry they smash in 23 shop windows in the centre of Swansea whilst clad only in their underpants – in the middle of February… (or was that just a good night out for Mr Tooth?)

                                                its well easy for things to turn gnarly at raves within seconds. Any peace is often an uneasy one; and there is always conflict right at the outset. they are after all large male-dominated groups and the urge to compete and fight is very strong; and the land is often taken without agreement with other sections of the community…..

                                                #1073708
                                                vicky
                                                Participant
                                                  General Lighting wrote:
                                                  There was perhaps initially something different rave culture, people were a bit friendlier etc but it wasn’t long (only a few months TBH) before the problems started, people falling out with one another, blagging money and being deadbeats, the usual stuff.

                                                  I think I’ve been cushioned from a lot of all that crap tbh – always had cool people, cool crews, friendly folk who were really quite enlightened in many ways – I guess a lot of older people – I always learned so much.

                                                  I know i’m just a hippy – but I blame raving all the way!!!

                                                  #1073730
                                                  Jon_tooth
                                                  Participant
                                                    General Lighting wrote:
                                                    a country where men get so angry they smash in 23 shop windows in the centre of Swansea whilst clad only in their underpants – in the middle of February…

                                                    And he was wearing them on his head, too.

                                                    #1073709
                                                    vicky
                                                    Participant
                                                      Jon_tooth wrote:
                                                      And he was wearing them on his head, too.

                                                      angry enough to steal a boat and row to port talbot?

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